I don't know if trying is something I want anymore. Things are just getting to out of my hands and I feel that the love that once was is gone. Is putting your all into something worth it if it is not coming from both sides?? You are told as a child that it takes two to tango, well it takes two to build a life together and have a happy home. Yes I do understand that it will not always be happy, happy but there needs to be some happiness to have a home. There has to be intimacy to be with someone that you are in love with. I'm not taking rip clothes off all the time because lets face it with a job, kids and bills coming out the ass the stress is a lot and rest is needed, but you should make time for the one that stands by you no matter what. Am I alone at thinking after being with someone for 13 years that sex should be something that happens a lot more than it does? Yea I do know that isn't the only thing that matters and I am not saying that but it is something that is needed. For me it puts questions in my head you know.. Like do you not like the way I look anymore, do you know find me attractive, is there someone else, but most of the time it just has me thinking am I not good enough anymore?? Talking to a man about these things can be hard. They really don't want to talk about it. I don't mind if something is wrong lets fix it.. My question to you my readers is this. When is it time for the hard question? When is it time to put all your fears aside and just come out with do you not want me anymore?? Send me some messages. Help me feel like I am not the only women feeling this way... Talk to you soon..